Self - Love: The Greatest Love

Self love is an exceptional value in which you place on yourself. Love yourself with all you have and always make the best out of your life. Never use cruel words on yourself nor condemn yourself before anyone, this is because that's how they intend to regard you. Undoubtedly, the greatest love of all is loving yourself. This because you can't give out what you don't have. Remember, the Holy Book said that you should love your neighbour just as you love yourself.

Love lies within you and its' manifestation is seen on how you treat others. In essence,most persons in certain relationship treats others wrongly all because they are in love with you. When you love yourself so much,you tend to transfer it to others even if they don't value it. Some feels that you're a fool and comes up with plans to play you,while some value your love others don't. Always remember that any relationship that does not give you happiness does not worth it. Nevertheless,never give up on yourself, always love yourself because there is no another you.

Relationship: A Perfect Way To Handle

Relationship has a lot in store. It goes beyond the mentality of having sex and emotional entanglement.
 Some persons feels that relationship comprises of sex and passion alone.

 It is very imperative to note that, a perfect relationship is one that deals more on what the individuals involve has to offer to one another.
 That's, apart from sex:

*What can you offer to your spouse?

* Mentally, can you contribute greatly to the    success of your spouse?

 * Do you have the intellectual capacity to bring out the best in your spouse?

 * Are you creative enough to proffer solutions to certain problems?

 * What is the real definition of the "I Love You" in your relationship?

 * Don't you think that love is more than being physical with someone?

 * What do you possess that can impart positive changes in your spouse?
At this point, it's vital to understand that love is more than being physical with someone.

Love it not explorative, deceitful and does not need proves. In essence, no one should pressure you into having sex with them to proof your love. Just know that it's really wonderful to be in love, especially with the right person in a perfect relationship.

If being physical with someone is the ultimate guarantee for a perfect relationship, then anyone can gladly offer it since it's very cheap.

Healthy Relationship

Love is a beautiful thing and the feeling of being loved is absolutely wonderful. Love is the foundation of any relationship. The experiences, adventures, care and support makes it more fantastic. Beyond these,it's necessary to take into account that we all go into certain relationships based on what we stand to gain.

Honestly, no one ventures into any business without setting it's goals, aims and objectives, the same is applicable to relationships. Let's be real here,you won't remain or maintain any relationship that you will not benefit from. Self interest in any relationship is really not bad at all because it helps in enhancing the relationship. Naturally, we are all humans and it's in our nature to to be selfish. In essence, you tend to make your interest your first priority before considering others.

However,it's not so in a lasting relationship. This is because you are both connected and understands each other's needs and expectations and as well loyal to one another. Thus,it signifies that the both of you are on the same page in your relationship.


 In order to have healthy relationship,no pretence nor secrets, adequate or quality communication is necessary,trust,honesty respect,support and an open mind will help in flourishing your relationship.

Knowing The Real You

It is quite unfortunate that people prefer to live in the shell of others rather than living their lives to the fullest. Their lives and decisions are constantly influenced by the people they always listened to or wants to be like. The only way you can live happily,successful and fulfilled on earth is if you be you real self.

*Never compete with anyone, your only competitor is yourself.

* Never assumed to be like someone else,no one can ever be like you.

* Never underestimate your capabilities, you unique in your own ways.


* No one is smarter than you, and no one is better than you.

* Never feel inferior at any point in your life, you are always a high flyer in life.

* You know yourself better than anyone else, let no one give you a definition of yourself

.....Live effectively, dream big dreams because there is no real limit on what you can accomplish with your life.