A Better Place

When I was a child I thought everyone will always get along and anyone could be anything. As time goes on, it turns out that real life could really be complicated.

 Real - life is mercy

* we all have limitations

* We all makes mistake

* We all have a lot in common.

  However, the more we try to understand one another, the more exceptional each of us would be but we have to try. So, no matter what kind of individual you are I employ you to try to make the world a better place.

A place were we will see beyond our weakness and find strength in ourselves to fight against any trial. In order to make the world a better place, you have to look inside yourself and recognize that.........

 *change starts from you

*It starts from me and

*It starts from all of us.

Let love always lead to make this world a better place to dwell.

Listen To Your Heart

There's no basic principle to finding love. Everyone thinks they have an idea of what you should do in order to find love.

Some say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, others suggest dating services and personality building. However, my journey has really thought me that it's not always the case. More so, I have come to realize that love has a life of it's own, it chooses us and not the other way round.

Love doesn't ask for our permission, it just happen to us. Love sees far than tribal, personality and age differences and only if we could open our hearts to let it in, it will flow indeed. You will find love when it's meant to be,all you have to do is listen to your heart.

The true expression of Love

The knowledge that I would have to atone rested on me like a well - worn blanket against a crisp and bitter truth. It was a sensation, like a touch, which was too profound and deep to be a simple manifestation of fear shaped from a long forgotten val experience.

He thought time healed all wounds, especially those of the flesh and of the soul. Little did he knew that some wounds never heal and the scars bleed incessantly never to close and never to mend.

There are things in this world that we know are truth because we can touch and feel them like pain. Others don't deserve it from you, instead help those who are facing this inevitable test to be pulled back again with love. Everyone is loveable. There's no one who is too bad that you can't love even place and time, it all depends on you.

 "You can be in the right place at the right time, and around the right people, yet nothing will happen unless you make the right move" Andrew Lara.

The right move to any successful relationships starts with the right mindset.

 ......how many people have such? 

 Embrace the unconditional love today and let it lead you in all you do because that's the true expression of love.

Singleness before Marriage

Being single is a privilege. Singleness is a necessary phase in life that you have to pass through in order to succeed in marriage.

Don't allow society to influence your sense of judgment. It is better to be single or have a broken engagement than to suffer divorce. Singleness is a gift, you are wonderful and delicate so celebrate your season as a single.

 Life is in phases,while men are in sizes. Every phase in life prepares you for the next one and being a single is a necessarily phase in life that should prepare you for marriage.

 Wedding is simply an initiation into marriage while marriage is a lifetime journey. Don't rush into marriage because all your friends are getting married, have an insight about marriage first. This is because when preparation meets with opportunity results seems to success.


 There is no accidental fulfilment in marriage,if you are going to enjoy fulfilment in your marriage then you have to prepare yourself for marriage and there is no better time than now that you are still single.


The marriage you don't prepare for will confuse you when you get there. Preparation is vital for marriage because it is your preparation that determine your experience in marriage. Acquire knowledge mostly about marriage because what you don't know will definitely suffer you.


Ignorance is behind every obstacle in a person's life but if you want to live happily then be learned and make your life simple. Be useful in your days of singleness and cultivate good character as it sustains beauty because bad habit denies absolute happiness. You can't be perfect but you can be useful and needful.

 ......Be integrity personified

 Never forget that a happy planned home lays the foundation for a progressive nation.

Hurt People, Hurt People

It's harder than I thought to tell the truth especially when people are stuck with the wrong mindset. All of the pain and irony you must have faced must have left you in pieces and has harden your heart,yes,it really hurt.

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Relationship is not that rosy, often times, people get hurt. However, it's not okay to go into a new relationship immediately after a broken one, there's need to heal first. This is because when people are really hurt by others they tend to do same to another in attempt to heal themselves.

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.......it's really hurt when you hurt somebody as hurt people, hurt people.

 In every relationship, be careful the way you treat people. If you don't love someone, let them go don't hurt them.

   * Not everything is of equal priority to                                     you.

   * Always see yourself in others, what you              will not like for yourself,
                don't do it to others.

   * Never be the reason for someone's tears                           of pain.

  * Handle situations with love to avoid                              hurting people.

In it all,you will feel great for your awesome deeds.

It's Really Good to make Mistakes

Often times I have made a lot of mistakes. Mostly, in trusting people close to me too much,underestimated the existence of evil especially on shining faces. In it all, I never expected anything from anyone. Maybe because I don't want to be crushed or disappointed, thereby becoming evilly in life.

Everyone makes mistakes. No one can avoid making mistakes because it's a normal part of life.

 "Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried something new" - Albert Einstein.

 The only thing I don't regret are my mistakes rather I learn from them. This is because making mistakes proves that am not perfect and it reminds me that I need to strive harder for the best. It motivate me to work harder,learn very fast and do better than before by improving myself.

..... Indeed Mistakes are challenging tools.

Most people are stagnant because they are always conscious of their actions and are also afraid of making mistakes. If so,how then can they improve?

 Mahatma Gandhi said that "Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes ". 

Mistakes help us grow as individuals, as  it's enables us to learn from them and succeed in life.

FAMILY : Always the Best

Family is everything in the entire world as it is the most vital aspect of human existence.

" What can you do to promote world peace? Go home and love your family" - Mother Teresa.

 Family is the heart of home where there's family, there's love. Family isn't always by blood because it only makes you related but it is mostly the people in your life who also wants you in theirs and would go to any length to protect and accept you for who you truly are with genuine and unique love.  

Some family could be really weird, crazy,troublesome,and confusing but it doesn't really matters, they are family and no one can take that away from them.

 Mostly, you might not get along with your family, it's a normal thing. There are times when you fights,argues,disagree on things and certain decisions, regrets and even keep malice with one another. But it doesn't count because your love for your family will always be great. In the end,family is everything.

When tough times and trouble comes,your family's support is all you need. They give you reasons to smile and feel special.

Always love your family no matter who they are because they are forever and they makes up a huge part of who you are today.